Step-by-step instructions
- Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C) and grease and flour your 9×13 inch pan.
- In a large bowl, combine the chocolate cake mix, chocolate pudding mix, milk, vegetable oil, and eggs until the mixture is smooth and well combined.
- Pour the batter into the prepared pan and bake for 30-35 minutes. Check for doneness with a toothpick—it should come out clean from the center.
- Once baked, let the cake cool in the pan for about 15 minutes.
- Use a skewer or fork to poke holes all over the cake.
- Pour the sweetened condensed milk over the cake, ensuring it seeps into the holes for extra moisture.
- Drizzle 1/2 cup of caramel sauce over the top of the cake.
- Allow the cake to cool completely before moving on to the topping.
- Spread the whipped topping evenly over the cooled cake.
- Sprinkle the toffee bits and chopped chocolate over the layer of whipped topping.
- Drizzle the remaining caramel sauce over the top.
- Chill the cake in the refrigerator for at least 4 hours, or preferably overnight, before serving for the best texture.
Best ways to enjoy it
To serve Better than Sex Cake, slice it into generous squares and put them on a beautiful dessert platter. Consider adding a scoop of vanilla ice cream on the side for an extra indulgent touch. Fresh berries can also add a fresh flavor contrast, making each bite delightful. Pair it with a rich cup of coffee or a glass of dessert wine to round off the experience!
How to store
Keeping your Better than Sex Cake fresh is easy. Store any leftovers in an airtight container in the fridge for up to a week. If you plan on keeping it for longer, it can also be frozen; just make sure to wrap it tightly in plastic wrap, and then in aluminum foil.
Safety Note: Always ensure any leftovers are cooled completely before placing them in the refrigerator or freezer to prevent condensation and sogginess.
Helpful cooking tips
- Enhance the cake’s flavor by using high-quality chocolate for the topping.
- Don’t rush the cooling process; allowing the cake to set properly ensures maximum flavor absorption from the sweetened condensed milk.
- If you enjoy a little crunch, try using crushed salted pretzels instead of toffee bits for an unexpected twist.
Creative twists
Feel free to get adventurous with this dessert! You can:
- Use different flavors of pudding mixes, like vanilla or butterscotch, for a unique taste.
- Add crushed Oreos or nuts into the frosting layer for added texture and flavor.
- Try layering in some fresh fruit, such as bananas or strawberries, between the cake and whipped topping layers.

Your questions answered
How long does it take to make Better than Sex Cake?
The total prep and cooking time for this cake is approximately 1 hour and then you should chill it for at least 4 hours, or overnight for best results.
Can I use low-fat options for the ingredients?
Absolutely! You can use low-fat pudding, reduced-fat whipped topping, and an alternative milk to make it a bit lighter.
What should I do if I don’t have sweetened condensed milk?
If you’re in a pinch, you can make a homemade version by combining 1 cup of whole milk with 1 cup of sugar and simmering it on low until it thickens.
Enjoy your baking journey with this sensational Better than Sex Cake! The joy of sharing it with family and friends is just as rewarding as the first slice you take.






